Tux Paint For Kids

Get a notebook Nice - one you can write and take notes. Whether it makes you feel good when you look at it. Then, follow the steps below.

1. Make a list of all the qualities you want your partner to have - looks, personality, work attitude, etc. Be as long as you continue to think about things. Back to your previous relationships and include people of all qualities of your past have had. Come back and add what you think of more advantages. Some of mine are like to dance, be outgoing, love to cook, be loving, wear dreads, who owns a tux, be smart, big, adventure, being ambitious, having lots of free time to spend with me, etc. Make it as outrageous as you want - just let yourself dream. Do not censor and do not decide everything, it is impossible to have. Just write. My list has approximately 130 features on it.

2. Come on your list and decide what qualities are "must haves" and whose qualities are "well off". On my 'must have' list I have the honesty, integrity, open to spirituality, non-smoking cigarettes, a healthy, virile, having its own money, and emotionally generous. Knowing your "must haves prevents you from wasting time with people who are 'nice' or 'potential', but are not there yet. You're not looking for someone to train, you are looking for someone to complete you. So you need to be clear on what is most important to you. So for me, is someone the first time for me, they came out. No second chance. Anyone who thinks I should help to financially support before he even considered. Smokers stink - I do not want the smell in my house or car. No consideration is given to ", but I'll stop smoking." No argument, no discussion. Be clear about what Dr. Phil calls deal breakers. 'Kids want "could be on your list, or" love my kids - if you have children already.

3. Look at past relationships that you have been in the modes of behavior that you do not want. Be clear about what you've been to attract. What did you love the past - in terms of feelings or self-esteem, or what has happened several times. What do you think all men? Or all women? Watch this consciousness and this is not true, it's true to who you drew. How did they treat? Did they listen? Have they been taken care of when you need to be? Have they been attentive, fast, or disappointing? Look for similarities in the personality of everyone you've been with. Write these down. Then look for similarities in your feelings about everyone you've been with. And really, note how you felt mostly in the relationship. Was this how you want to feel? Write it all down.

4. Now write the opposite of all the negative qualities you found in step 3. How would you feel or be treated? For example, when I did this, I found that my feelings predominate in most of my relationships have been frustrated, not being listened to, disappointment, rejection, distance, feeling scorned or to have men who want to change me. I wrote the contrary, if I want to feel understood, spoken, heard, respected, nurtured, challenged and taught, loved, important for someone to be loved (I was loved by the people I was not sure liked me) and appreciated - my company, my presence, my mood. This shows you what you want in a relationship.

5. And of course, note any other positive qualities that you may think you want or feel in a relationship. I want to laugh and laugh at the stupid stuff. I want long, endlessly fascinating conversations that go on and on and stretch my mind. I want fun. I want some nice surprises. I want new adventures together. I want sex paint peeling where we take each other high.