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I am a boy of 21 years, from New York.
I'm 5'9 ", weighs 136 - £ 140.
I have many "features" or "stereotypes" that may seem gay. People asked me if I was and I always said no. These are some things about me:
1. My voice is naturally soft (high)
2. I like beautiful dress (BCBG clothing and Nice) and I love shopping.
3. Sometimes my hands swing when I walk
4. I sometimes talk with my hands
5. I am very shy, but creative and love drawing, painting, making clay structures, etc.
6. I like listening to music and my iPod 80GB. Some of my favorite singers: Michael Jackson, Lady Gaga, etc.
7. I love watching movies and I love the new as well as the classics. I like all kinds of new movies (ie Angelina Jolie, Jodie Foster, drama, comedy, action / adventure, thriller) and classic movies and actresses from this period are my favorites in this order: Joan Crawford (1905-1977), Marilyn Monroe (1926-1962), Bette Davis (1908-1989), Elizabeth Taylor (1932 -).
8. I like watching television. My favorite show is probably Gossip Girl. I also like watching Will and Grace, The Wanda Sykes Show, The New Adventures of Old Christine, The L Word, House, CSI, Martha Stewart, The Adventures of Ambrose Price decoration, etc.
9. I like to drink. I hate beer / whiskey, etc., but I like the red and white wine, champagne, cognac, vodka, gin, sherry, tequila, anisette and liqueurs.
10. I love to dance
11. I do not really have any friends, but I get along with my parents and two sisters. I still live at home. I tinker with nonchalance as leaf raking, shoveling snow, planting flowers, helping my parents cook, bake, decorate, plan things, adventure, etc. I intend to go to college at the end of 2010 I want to major in Business-Design/or Creative Arts (NYU perhaps) for Interior Design. My IQ is 107.
12. I am a boy very clean. My room is very nice and expensive French furniture design, interior room very nice, designer clothes, I own 26 pairs of shoes (not inc. Other shoes), 5 colognes, 12 belts, 37 links and a ton of sweaters, shirts (XS-S), pants (w28-30/L30. I have over 15 designer coats and many other garments.
13. I always look great in my appearance, and I look at least 5 or 6 years younger than 21. I use gel or foam to keep my hair looking Nice and my hair style (generally, the Hawk-style fake) my skin is white, my complection is clear and I always get at least nine hours of sleep each night.
15. I have been on the abuse and addiction to sedatives such as Ativan (Lorezepam) a powerful sedative - (benzodiazepine) 4.5 mg for 2 years. and alcohol and still enjoy the effect of high on drugs, and escape, and I always escape the unpleasant thoughts that I have on myself. I am now on the sedative drug and drink less and now more in touch with reality, but still escape from time to time by different means.
14. I watched a lot of new movies with actresses like Megan Fox, Angelina Jolie, etc. and I think they are beautiful, but I'm not excited either still on or by other women and I also watched porn on Io, but I never turned on by girls and breasts, etc.
15. Whenever I watched or seen cute, attractive boys my age, I am always energized and inspired and usually when they are shirtless or naked, I am very happy and excited.
16. I watched porn movies and sex with boys and I've very excited and enthusiastic and have masturbated and sometimes it took more than one hour to reach orgassm, etc.

Based on everything written above, is there a way you could say that my sexual orientation is? I do not know if I'm straight, bisexual, lesbian or gay? What do you think my sexuality is this? Am I gay? If yes, why?
Please help me ... ...................................... you.

Your sexuality is not justified by the way you act, if you wish.